If youre a survivor and you publicly ship pedophilic ships, even if its for coping, youre still contributing to the pedophilic culture. youre still adding more content for pedophiles to literally use to groom kids.
I was groomed online and in real life by multiple pedophiles when i was 10-14 years old. They used loli / shota porn and pedophilic ships (fanart, fics, etc) to tell me that it was normal and even good. Some of that media could have been created by survivor “just trying to cope” but that wouldnt make a damn difference. It took me until i was 17 years old to realize that it wasnt normal or good. because of shit like this.
its never ok, being a survivor doesnt negate you contributing to this awful culture.
maladaptive coping mechanisms are still maladaptive - and when it and your creations enters the public domain, it is very much now devolved of your own personal motivators. it’s just going to be used to hurt and groom others, serves to normalize abuse and triggers other survivors; so i really loathe people who try to use this as a copout as if they get a stamp of ethics due to reasons behind doing this or as if it all just revolves around them. and i especially hate this ugly website for facilitating and promoting this kinda mindset y’all are scum
Hey precious people, I have decided to do another art give away only a small one, 2 lucky WINNERS! :)
1st winner will receive: -1 72 pack of copic is markers
-5 pairs of ART socks
-2 large moleskin art journals
-3 kanken bags of your choice
2nd winner will receive:
-1 38 pack of copic markers
-3 pairs of art socks
-2 kanken bags of your choice
-1 moleskin art journal
Rules: -Must be following ME on Tumblr -Follow my instagram @ tarakenny__ for a better chance at winning. (Like and comment on my instagram posts, keep active)! -MUST please keep active, like my posts, comment and be friendly, I love to make new friends! -Reblog the giveaway as much times as you want (the more the better chance of winning) -If you don’t follow the rules you will be disqualified from the competition and blocked.
Other Information:
-If you were in the previous give away you are already counted! -This give away ends the 30th January 2017!!! -I’ll be shipping world wide. -Please don’t comment about the giveaway on my instagram since it’s my personal account and it can get very repetitive and annoying. :) -Message me once followed on instagram also so I can write you down on the list.
I love you all and I hope you all have fun. :)
i’m here for the black wlw who rarely see themselves represented
i’m here for the black wlw who think their attraction is inherently predatory, it’s not
i’m here for the black wlw who are trans girls
i’m here for the black wlw who are nonbinary
i’m here for the black wlw who dropped out of school
i’m here for the black wlw who think they’re nothing more than a statistic, you are so much more than a statistic
i’m here for the black wlw who are neurodivergent
i’m here for the black wlw who think that in a society like ours with the standards we have that they’ll never find someone to call theirs. you will, give it time
3K TYSM EVERYONE!!!
In honor of hitting this milestone so quickly, I’m doing another giveaway bc the last one was so much fun!!! Here we go!
Prizes:
- five muji gel pens
- one moleskine notebook
- one 12 pack of copic markers
- one bath bomb from lush
- one two faced peach palette
- one face mask from lush
Rules:
must be following me
must be following my insta @/victoriaqueue (I’ll be following a bunch of people back and spamming everyone w likes)
must reblog this post
Good luck everyone! I’ll be using a random generator to choose someone. This will end December 24th!!! My last giveaway winner is @ijrlnh so you can ask her if you have any questions or want proof :-) And most importantly thank you all for 3k followers!!! Love you lots!
Y’know I reblogged this a bit ago and was saved from financial probation and getting kicked out of school because of it, just mere months from graduation. Got a call from the financial aid advisor telling me that they made a mistake with filing my account (or some other sort of clerical error) and said that, basically, they owe me money. Welp.
Last time I reblogged the money cat, I won two $100 gift cards at work.